I wrote this awhile ago and just found it in my drafts...interesting.

We've all had our heart broken. Even if not through a romantic relationship...someone has betrayed our trust in one way or another. The kind of betrayal/hurt that makes your stomach want to fall out your butt. Makes you feel like there's no hope in people anymore; hurt happens and it sucks.

But when did it become acceptable to cause this hurt? When did it become acceptable to cheat on your boy/girlfriend that you've been with for a year or so. Who decided that was OK? We didn't. We just let it slide, became more comfortable with betrayal and lying...not necessarily to say we don't mind if people do it, but we expect it. Whatever happened to expecting the good until proven wrong?

Too many people have gone and fucked up the system.

What in your right mind thinks (this is more towards the guys cause that's where my experience lies) that emotional mind games are ok? You like a girl you date her. Cut & dry. No more of this gray area of confusion. Especially when you have a gf.

This is turning into a rant more than an insightful thought process as it began...so i'm going to stop now. I just wish we could get back to organic dating. Taking a girl out if you like her and then dating her. As opposed to "hooking up" or "playing the field."

Organic Dating.